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Private coaching for successful, self-aware women

You know what you want to change. Why can't you make yourself do it?

For the woman who has done the work, knows what she wants, and is tired of still not being able to make the change.

You are successful. You are capable. People come to you for advice. You know yourself well. But there is one part of your life you keep coming back to. You keep processing it. You can explain exactly why it keeps happening. You keep saying you will change it. And you still haven't.

On the outside, it all looks good.

Oomee laughing and looking away, warm light, gold hoop earrings

How many more years are you going to know what you want and still be living the same thing?

But if forcing yourself were going to work, it would have worked by now.

  1. Push through.
  2. Be more disciplined.
  3. Stop overthinking.
  4. Make the decision.
  5. Be more consistent.
  6. Just do it.

You already know what you want. You already know what needs to change. So when you still don't do it, you start assuming you are the problem...

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You keep telling yourself "I just need to make myself do it."

The real question

You are deciding whether you are willing to become the woman you think that choice says you are.

You know what you want. But there's another question underneath it:

If I do this, what does that make me?

So the decision is no longer just about what you want.

You keep looking for a version of the choice where nobody gets hurt, disappointed, or thinks differently of you.

But some choices are going to change your life. Isn't that what you wanted?

So you rethink it. Wait. Soften it. Try to explain it better. You keep trying to make the choice without having to deal with what it changes.

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The work

The work isn't making yourself do it.

It's seeing what has made the choice so hard to make.

Then you can choose from what you actually want.

  1. What would choosing this make you believe about yourself?

  2. Who would you have to stop being?

  3. What have you decided a woman like you would never do?

Because once you can see what the choice has come to mean about you, you can finally decide whether that meaning is actually true.

That is when movement becomes possible.

Once you see what the choice has come to mean about you, you can question whether it's even true.

  • Maybe choosing yourself does not make you selfish.
  • Maybe changing your mind does not make you unreliable.
  • Maybe wanting more does not make you ungrateful.
  • Maybe disappointing someone does not make you a bad person.

And when the meaning changes, the choice changes with it. You are no longer trying to force yourself past something. You are finally making the decision from what is actually true for you.

You are allowed to want something your old identity never accounted for.

Maybe the choice isn't asking you to become someone else. Maybe it's asking whether the woman who made those rules still gets to decide.

The woman who said:

  • I would never do that.
  • I should be grateful.
  • I don't get to change my mind.
  • I can't disappoint them.
  • That's not who I am.

Those rules may have made sense once. But they do not get to decide the rest of your life.

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This is what that work looks like.

You have already thought about it. Processed it. Tried to understand it. Tried to change it. The problem is not a lack of insight. It's that you can't always see the thing that is organizing the choice while you are inside it.

That is the work I do. I find what has been holding the choice in place, so we can get to the truth of it and something can finally move.

You don't need someone to tell you what to do. You need someone who can see what you can't see from inside the pattern.

What it feels like to work with Oomee

When the right thing gets seen, it can't keep running the same way.

This is what happens when the work gets precise.

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Working with Oomee has been a godsend. Her offering was exactly what my soul needed, and I've been on fire ever since.

L. Smith
  1. Oomee helped me reconnect to my heart, my truth, and the changes that would create the greatest transformation.

    Stacy G.
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    “Working with Oomee was truly eye-opening. In a season where I felt overwhelmed and unclear of the direction to head in every area of life, she helped me reconnect to my heart, my truth, and the changes that would create the greatest transformation. She beautifully blends practical guidance with deep spiritual wisdom, and has an incredible ability to hear what's unspoken, helping you recognize both the patterns holding you back and the power within you to create the life you truly desire. Since our time together, I've begun taking the steps necessary to create the vision that was born, and I'm seeing shifts in the right direction happening in everything. I highly recommend working with her.”

  2. Heather B., a client of Oomee

    There are gifts in this world that defy language, and Oomee is one of them.

    Heather B.
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    “In all my years of exploring the spiritual world, encountering hundreds of practitioners and moving through more modalities than I can count, her gifts stand apart. When she works with you, she does not simply address what is on the surface. She enters the architecture of your energetic system, sees its map with extraordinary precision, and rewrites what has been holding you. Things that have blocked you for years dissolve with a quiet ease that is almost impossible to explain. And then it is simply done. And things are simply different. Simply be a yes. You will not regret it.”

  3. Kristel G., a client of Oomee

    I can't even describe how I feel. I haven't felt this connected in years and years!

    Kristel G.
  4. Jax A., a client of Oomee

    You are walking medicine!

    Jax A.
  5. Fjola F., a client of Oomee

    Two weeks later I had put it together, put out an advertisement and I am hosting my first workshop for 12 women this July! And I am getting asked if I will host another one. AMAZING!!

    Fjola F.
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    “I kind of did not know what I was signing up for when I applied for CROWN. But it got my attention and I felt it in my gut that it was something I needed to do. And boy, I do not regret it! Oomee helped me design my workshop from A-Z, minute by minute. We made a curriculum, the cost, what I will offer, how I would like to design the space, and just everything about it. Two weeks later I had put it together, put out an advertisement and I am hosting my first workshop for 12 women this July! And I am getting asked if I will host another one. AMAZING!!”

  6. Kota P., a client of Oomee

    Working with Oomee honestly changed my life.

    Kota P.
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    “Working with Oomee honestly changed my life. It reshaped my mindset around my dad in a way nothing else has. I can look back on memories without the same negative feelings, and now I feel lighter, more motivated, and connected to a sense of purpose again.”

  7. Kenadee M., a client of Oomee

    Working with Oomee is something special.

    Kenadee M.
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    “Working with Oomee is something special. She helped me break down walls I didn't realize I had up and release emotions packed away I didn't realize I was carrying. She provided such a safe and loving space for me to unpack my world and help me piece it back together in a way that fit the new version of myself I became along the way. Because of my work with her, I feel so much clarity and certainty in my life, where I'm at, and where I am going.”

Ways to work with me

Choose the level of support that fits where you are now.

Private 1:1 Coaching

Emerald

For the woman whose life is already moving, and who wants a place sharp enough to move with her.

Investment$1,500/month

  • 90-minute private sessions every other week
  • WhatsApp support between sessions
  • Pattern and unconscious-level work

You are making decisions. Having the conversations. Changing the business. Changing the relationship. Changing the way you live. You are not waiting to begin. You are already in it.

Emerald is ongoing private coaching for the woman who wants a place to bring what is happening in real time, see what she cannot see from inside it, and keep making clear decisions as the landscape changes.

This is not about more information. It is about having a precise place to think, decide, and keep moving.

Apply for Emerald

Private 90-Minute Intensive

Crown

For the woman who has one thing she is done circling and wants to see clearly now.

Investment$695

  • One 90-minute private intensive
  • Focused work around one decision, pattern, or live issue
  • Clear next-step movement

Bring the decision. The pattern. The conversation. The situation you cannot seem to move. We go straight to what you cannot see from inside it.

Crown is a focused 90-minute private intensive designed to uncover what has been organizing the pattern, get to the truth underneath it, and help you leave knowing what changes next.

This is not another conversation about the problem. This is precision.

Book Crown

Which one is for you?

Same depth. Different entry points.

Choose Iris if:
You know what you want, but an old version of you still seems to get the final say.
Choose Emerald if:
Your life is already moving and you want a sharp, private place to think, decide, and keep moving with it.
Choose Crown if:
There is one thing you are done circling and want to see clearly now.
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Not sure which one fits?

You do not need to know which offer is right for you before you reach out. You only need to know you are ready to make a different choice.

Book a Clarity Call and we'll decide which level of support makes the most sense.

You do not need another year of thinking about it. Choose the level of support that fits where you are now.

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Apply to work with me. You already know what you want.